We hate them- those women who seem to effortlessly attract men, and always have a following of males eager to do anything to get her attention. It’s rarely you, though, and you don’t know what they have that you don’t. What’s their secret, and can you tap into the same man-magic, attracting them to you easily? Of course you can, all women have the ability to be as alluring as possible. There are just a few easy steps you need to follow, in order to become irresistible.
Feel Inner Fab
The biggest aphrodisiac in the world is a self-confident woman who’s happy. Men like to be around positivity, and with you exuding it, it’s a simple domino-effect of goodness that will have them tumbling into your lap.
It’s important to dress well. But you don’t have to go overboard and dress your best, daily. Women can get carried away with this- being presentably cute is more attractive. Have your hair done when it needs it, wear clothes that accent your figure and are comfortable.
Healthy Is Hot
You may have perfected your inner appearance, but your outer appearance should be reflected. Glowing both on the outside and the inside is doubly attractive and will keep them coming back for more. A light exercise regime and good food has the bonus of you feeling great.
It might seem like a small change, but aroma can be one of the headiest ways to turn their heads. There’s a new trend in perfumes mixed with pheromones, or go for the smells men like best: vanilla or lavender.
Get Out and About
Extend yourself a little more than usual and try a few new places. It not only makes you more interesting but gives you much more choice, by meeting a lot of different people. It’s also expanding your dating petri dish possibilities.
Charm Up Your Chats
Letting your personality shine is an attractor factor. When you’re speaking to men, find something that you like about them, and give a compliment. It could be clothes, eyes, interesting job- it doesn’t matter, if it’s genuine.
Men Love Mystery
Don’t tell him your life story, front-to-back, when you first meet him. Give him just enough information to want more. Listening to men, actually paying attention to what they have to say and reacting is a turn-on.
Let Him Lead
Putting him in the ‘driver’s seat’ helps him feel at ease, and more manly. It also takes away the possibility of you looking desperate- and keeps him on his toes, guessing how you truly feel.
Make Small Moves
Your body language tells him if you’re attracted or not. Direct eye-contact, light touches on his arm or standing close will let him know you might be interested- and it can pull him in even further.
Don’t jump at the chance to see him as soon as possible. Meet friends, keep a busy schedule and let him know he’d be an addition to your life- Not your life. Men dig the chase, and feeling like they’ve worked hard to win you over.
With a little effort on your part, you’ll be the envy of every woman in the room- with men falling at your feet and begging for more.