Pretending to meet her expectations? – Be yourself instead

The reason your girl friend is dating you, is that she liked you as you are. Don’t try to become someone she told she dreamt of, as her perfect date. Just be yourself and you will find her closer to you.

Of course, everyone has fear of rejection and that is human nature. But, don’t play games just because you want her attention. Be real and genuine! Keep growing as an individual and she will stay interested in you.

Clinging to the past? – Leave the past where it belongs

If you have had a relationship in the past. Just dump it as you dumped your favorite jeans that tattered. Get over your ex completely before you get into a new relationship. Discussing and comparing your ex-girl friend with new one can be a real turn-off.

Keeping things to you? – Communicate

Relationships rest on how well you understand your mate. Share things with your girl friend and strengthen the bonding. This will make you more free and comfortable with each other. Sharing keeps love alive! If you have an argument, keep a mum for few minutes, but don’t sleep over your problems. Relax and then discuss it calmly, to bring them to an end.

Spending too much time with her? – Big No-No

You will be risking too much doing this. If you spend most of time with her, you will not be able to spare time for your friends. And, you might lose close friends. Moreover, you’ll be smothering her personal time. A little bit of space braces the bond of love and the urge to meet too!

Saying ‘I Love you’, soon and frequently? – Be generous in their usage

Don’t shower her with these three words more often. Let them work their magic once in a while. Women love to hear them, but an over dose might jade the spark. Also, don’t use these magical words early in your relationship. Love is all about correct timing. Revealing the suspense in the beginning would throw the audience out of the theatre. Build it up, let her wait and long for it.

She is not perfect? – She’ll never be

It’s not a person who is perfect, it is the relationship two people make that becomes perfect. Nobody is perfect in fact, sometimes we see the faults early, and others not until later. Friendship in a couple makes their relationship strong enough to endure. Don’t expect her to change, develop an understanding rather, so that the good outweighs the bad. Expectations make relationships nerve-racking and fragile!

You are an open book? – Keep some mystery

Don’t be readily available. Let her explore you, wonder about you. Monopolize her thoughts! Uncertainty and unpredictability keeps the spark in relationship. Sweet surprises have a touch of the unknown! Foster the ability to keep the mystery. Learn How to be Irresistible to Women. You can use the tips mentioned in this e-book, to master the art of seducing her.

Happy dating!

Yes, many people start losing charm in their marriage because they start taking their better half for granted. Once this thing starts, both parties remain unsatisfied about the other. Then small tiffs which may lead to bigger fights at times start showing their appearance. It definitely does not mean that the marriage is at stake.

You can mingle many things on special occasions to rejuvenate your married life like New Year eve and other holidays to perk up your married life as well as can throw a spark of love and tender touch in to your partner’s heart by giving them gifts unexpectedly.

This will give a new start to your marriage life. You can do many things to revive the lost charm in your married life. Though we understand that both of us are busy with the mundane routine of life, the first and foremost thing to remember is taking time out for just the two of you. It may be just a bike ride after your day’s work or a long drive with soft music on. It may also be a cozy dinner at a place of your spouse’s choice or at some restaurant on special festivals or New Year. It is the small pleasures that have to be appreciated by both the partners. Understanding each others’ needs and acknowledging them at times is more than enough for most marriages.

If only 5 days are left for the New Year, you can make a plan to surprise your spouse by gifting solitaire or by managing a dinning for her in some restaurant or even by taking out some precious moments for her from your busy schedule. Well, the things might differ in each couple. If you are an older couple who have had their life full circle with all the kids grown up and settled, you can still ad spark to your love life. Go traveling. See the beauty of nature that eluded you so many years due to your hectic work schedule. Go for concerts that enchant you. All these things will surely add spice to your married life and by this you kick a new start on the New Year bash. You will be mesmerized at how wonderful life can be!